The Art of Flirting and Online Dating
The Art of Flirting and Online Dating
Some of the things that work for online flirting, are similar in theory to what works for brick and mortar in making them strong, when putting together the first building bricks, by skillful use of knowing how to use the tools. The same type of thing is true to online dating when it comes to flirting. Flirting is an art that requires strong confidence without being over the top (OTT) with it. If you go too far, she will label you as: “slimy”. If you don’t go far enough, she will label you as: “wimpy”. So how do you achieve that half-way point between slimy and wimpy when online, and unable to use eye contact or body language? Given that you already have a computer, internet connection and a dating host site you can still make it work buy using some of these tips for flirting online successfully.
1. First is to have some fun! Humor is key, so be light-hearted and entertaining in your conversations. Make her eager to talk to you again. Remember part of the art of flirting is being playful.
2. Show confidence. Having a positive outlook on life and the future will always make your flirting more successful. You should portray to her an optimistic way of thinking, that will make her feel good about herself.
An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies.
3. Compliment her, and do it often and sincerely.
By making her feel good about herself you will help make your connection online even stronger. This will make her want to spend even more time chatting with you, and if she ever returns the compliment make sure you say, ’thank you’. Never cut your self down or down play her compliment.
4. You need to be a good listener and always listen, listen, listen. Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions. Get her to open up and talk about herself. Give out a good vibe by being interested in what she has to say and she will pick up on it. When you show that you are really interested in her as a person, it will work wonders!
5. Never be rude to her. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isn’t responding to you. If she isn’t interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect. If you find you are getting a lot of rejections then don’t lose your confidence you just need to reconsider your approach.
6. Send an email after you chat. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.
Remember, do not move to fast, just take it easy. If you want a lasting relationship, then successful flirting is the first step to take.
Successful online dating can be summed up in the words of Ether Barrymore: “The best time to make friends is before you need them”; and, “Laughter is the shortest distance between two friends”.
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