Ten Tactics to Master Communicating with Babes
Ok guys, do you sometimes get the feeling that you just can’t get it right when it comes to talking to women? Are you a complete marble mouth and ending up frustrated in your romantic life because you keep turning women off when you talk to them? Then you see some dudes who don’t seem to be any more intelligent than you or attractive and women just seem to be all about them. How does that work? Well, if you are anxious to discover what you must know about communicating with women then here are ten ways to become a master:
To start with you must stop trying to impress her. Girls aren’t interested in you trying to decide for them about what they should think about you. If you honestly want to be able to speak to a woman you better be yourself and let her determine what she thinks about you.
The second thing you gotta master is keeping your compliments about her appearance to yourself. Trust me, if she’s pretty, she knows she is. She’s had men saying that to her for her whole life, so what’s the big deal if you tell her what she has heard already? If you must say something nice, find something about her character or her clothes.
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The third thing is that you should not hesitate to enter her space. This means that you touch her lightly on the arm when you talk or at least touch one of her items like her handbag or her mobile phone. You see, girls have this kind of sixth sense and they can tell if you are uneasy. Then they become uncomfortable and before you know it they just decide they don’t like feeling that way and they book.
The fourth thing you must understand is boundaries. If you can see that a women is ready to end the conversation and you turn into that clingy man who tries to keep her interest she is going to tune you right out. Think about it, she could be preoccupied or perhaps she is just a little nervous because she is actually attracted to you. Either way, if you come off as clingy she is going to book.
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The fifth thing to master is the art of polite put down. for example, you mention something about her that is negative or even unattractive. Just do it in a casual way and don’t be mean or degrading. This will suggest to her that she has to compensate for it and before too long she will be all over you trying to win your validation.
Sixth, we move on to sexual tension. Now this is a thing which puts the poor old nice guys in the friends category when it comes to women. You see, sexual attraction between a male and a female requires some dissonance in order to be effective. This means that you disagree with her and even challenge her in a teasing sort of way.
The seventh thing is building comfort. The problem is that a lot of men attempt to accomplish this by bending to her every need and being a softie. Sorry, that is going to make her feel really uneasy. Why? Because a girl feeling comfortable is all about her being comfortable with your ability to keep her safe, being a nice boy just won’t get the job done when it comes to that.
That brings us to the eighth key to attracting women and that is being the bad boy instead of the nice guy. You see, a girl is not attracted to the nice boy because she is worried that he won’t have the ability to stand up for her. Being the alpha male is going to cause her to feel comfortable around you and as she feels comfortable she will relax.
Number nine, take initiative. Women are much better at being easy on guys for moving too fast or making a mistake than they are to forgive a guy who is sluggish or indecisive. If you mull around until you understand how she feels about you before you take initiative, don’t be surprised if she ends up being snatched up by a guy who makes a move.
Finally, pursue the girl who is a bit of a challenge and who may not appear that she truly desires a man by her side. Many guys are simply too scared of an independent woman. This only means that there is slimmer competition so if you are the guy who takes a risk to pursue the seemingly out of reach girl you are probably the person who is going to get her.
Just be sure to use each one of these keys and don’t falter unless you want to end up hanging out at the arcade with the other hopeless romantics on weekend nights. Have fun!
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