My Guide to Starting Conversations With Women
Imagine you could strike up a chat with a girl at any time you choose? I believe that most guys would agree that this skill would surely lead to amazing adventures and stories.
It’s actually not that hard to learn how to talk to women and in this guide I’ll show you exactly how to do it so the next time you see an attractive woman, you’re running up to her to say hi.”
The first concept to starting a chat is that you must first detach yourself from the outcome. If you’re walking up to a woman worried about what she’ll say, what she’ll do or if she’ll like you or not, then you’re almost guaranteed to fail before you even start.
This is because the more you reflect about how to start a conversation with a girl, the more you tend to over-analyse the situation. More often than not, this ends up in a guy simply walking away from the woman, without even introducing himself to her. Don’t be that guy!
Instead, when you approach a girl, think of it as an experiment where you’re going to discover if you like the woman or not. Usually it’s you that won’t like the girl so you can’t really be scare of her not liking you in the first place. If anything, when you start a conversation for the first time with a girl, just try to have fun with it and whatever happens… happens.
The second concept to starting conversations is to have a pre-made opener for when your mind goes completely blank. I know that many guys usually have their minds go completely blank when a beautiful woman crosses their path. That’s why you need to have something to say before you go out instead of trying to think of it on the spot.
What’s a good conversation starter? I like to use “Hello there” but that’s difficult for a lot of guys. Instead, you could ask for an opinion on something, or even comment on a situation you’re both in. For example, when I’m at the grocery store, I usually ask women what kind of pasta I should make that evening, fettucini or linguini?
Remember the goal is to start a conversation with a woman. After that, you’ll want to have something interesting to say to keep the woman’s attention. A lot of guys think of stories to tell a woman and build a routine
Routines are simple stories about you that let the woman know a little more about you without saying it directly. So if you would want her to know that you travel a lot, you could discuss you recent trip to warm land of Sahara Desert.
- Start with a fun opener
- Carry on with stories that you memorized
Lastly, a little trick that guys should use is a false time constraint.Whenever you begin a conversation, you should mention that you can only talk for a few seconds and then you need to get back to your friends. This is my favorite technique to use when starting conversations because then you get the girls asking you to stay longer when they find out you’re interesting.
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