It’s Normal To Stumble When You Ask Her Out
You know you want to ask her out and yet you stumble and fumble about like you don’t have a thing to say. She’s a little different, full of flair and personality, and you think you’re intimidated by that. Asking her out is like asking you to climb Mount Olympus in your flip flops.
She’s going to be getting a tattoo and you believe that is just downright hot. You were hoping she’d get it by now so you would have something to compliment her on. Her photography interests have her collecting used cameras, but the only one you could find was so broken up you couldn’t imagine being foolish enough to give it to her. You want to slip a note into her laptop bag but you are afraid she will catch you, and then you’ll have to speak.
What stops you from asking her out is that she might say no. More than that, she might actually say yes. Then you would have to come up with hours of communication, and you are already struggling to get a simple sentence out that sounds like you.
It’s acceptable at this point to relax and start remembering that she isn’t dangerous and she isn’t superhuman. She is just as flawed and incomplete as anyone else in the world. She has her doubts, her hang ups, and her unfortunate habits.
Some of us are better with words when we write them down. There’s nothing wrong with that. Some of us just aren’t ready to walk up to what appears to be the girl of our dreams and flat out ask her to spend an evening hanging out in your world. Maybe you can spend an evening hanging out in hers.
Asking her out isn’t the make it or break it statement of your life and if you just start to look at it as practice, you’ll be able to take some of the pressure off. She is fallible, just as you are. She isn’t something to hang on your mantle and worship. She is human with human flaws and human interests. She isn’t going to grow fangs and claws and tear you to pieces. She is just a young woman whom has captured your attention.
Once you gain a little confidence, find a way to open that door to get you talking, and ask her out you will have gained something wonderful and irreplaceable. You will have gained confidence. And confidence is always quite sexy.
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