How to Seduce Women Using the 4 Rules of Successful Flirting
Want to attract girls easily to you beginning RIGHT NOW? I’m about to share with you a powerful concept…
Humor.
Surveys that ask what women want in a man have found humor come in the top 3 pretty much every time.
People have often heard of this concept under a different name…things like cocky-funny, simple teasing, sarcasm, and even “negging.” You might have heard one or more of these names before.
What you might not know is that many guys play the humor cards the wrong way with women, and as a result, tend to blow their chances…
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If you are to get a woman laughing and SIMULTANEOUSLY attract her, there are certain principles you must understand that knowing them and following them will provide you great success with women and dating. They are known as the 4 RULES of humor.
RULE #1: Flirting Does Not Include Clowns
There’s a fine line between being funny and attracting women versus acting like a clown. Clown-like behavior isn’t attractive to women. The reason why is because it comes off like you are trying too hard. You may have noticed this when other guys try to get woemn to laugh and end up making a fool out of themselves instead.
If you act like a clown, she perceives you as more desperate and with less social status…like you really badly want her to approve of you… And that definitely kills attraction.
Definitely no slapstick humor. That only gets women to laugh AT you instead of WITH you.
If you are thinking about learning about humor from comedians, I would think twice. Although many comedians can get women to laugh, the comedians very rarely get laid!
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RULE #2: Tease Her
Perhaps you can remember how 5th grade boys tend to act a certain way when they like a certain girl. They may call her names or even pull her hair.
Although I don’t endorse pulling her hair (at least not for now), TEASING her is a fantastic way to incorporate humor into your arsenal for attracting women. You can’t be a jerk though. What it is about is treating the girl in a way that lets her know you are completely comfortable in your own skin and that you aren’t afraid of teasing her.
Some ways you can tease her are…
• Giving her a nickname (my personal favorite)
• Mocking her voice
• With a smile on your face, mess with the things she says
By teasing a girl, you are assuming familiarity, and if the two of you just met and you are ALREADY teasing her, there’s really no “uncomfortable period” that typically happens when two people just meet.
RULE #3: Use Your Body Language
One common pattern of great comedians is that they use their entire body as they go through their routine. I mean they involve their facial expressions, utilize props, gestures with their hands, and anything they can grab ahold of…all to get people to laugh.
Again, clown-like behavior doesn’t attract women. However, make sure you use your BODY LANGUAGE in ways that ensure congruence with the things you say. Do this by teasing her AND establishing physical contact at the same time. This shows her you are a guy who is comfortable to play around her.
Some ways to do this are…
• Playfully swatting her
• Pushing her away, only to pull her back into a hug
• Playing games like “thumb war” and “hand slapping”
Just simply break the “touch” barrier by simultaneously using humor while attracting her.
RULE #4: Do Other Things
How about I share with you an analogy for using humor to attract women successfully? Humor is more like the spice in the recipe than the main dish itself.
By SOLELY teasing her and making her laugh, you don’t provide her the opportunity to notice the other great aspects of your personality, so it is definitely important to use other things that continue to help you build (and maintain) attraction.
Some things you can do while she’s laughing are…
• Establish physical contact
• Storytelling
• Build deep rapport
• Pose questions to her
Doing these kinds of things give her the chance to notice you as a well-rounded individual, rather than only as someone who can make her laugh.
So, for attracting girls, one of your most powerful tools in your toolbox is humor. Be sure to get it right by adhering to the 4 rules of humor you’ve just read so that you can create a connection that is both flirty and fun…and always works in your favor to get the girl.
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