Great Dating Tips For Guys
More often when your friends are sitting around having a drink is when they come up with all their best one-liners to help you approach girls. It’s then they come out with all their dating tips for guys! Did you ever wonder why it is that they are sharing their tips with you instead of making the moves on their own? Perhaps their confidence in themselves to score ranks lower than your ability to score. If they have that much faith in your ability to approach a girl should you not have as much or even more?
I know you’ve heard it before but first impressions ARE the ones that last the longest. If you are somewhat negative as you approach a girl, chances are it is going to be short lived. One of the easily overlooked dating tips for guys is how you look, especially when you meet the girl for the first time. Girls like to feel comfortable and if you are dressed in a manner that is far to the right or the left of the establishment you are in your appearance will violate her comfort zone. When going out with the idea of approaching a girl dress neat, dress clean, and dress in accordance with the local dress code. There are some places where spiked purple hair is appropriate and some places where a three piece suit is appropriate. Seldom are they the same place so do not confuse the two.
One liners work in movies and occasionally in other places. But for the most part a polished one liner is no way to approach a girl, especially if she doesn’t know you from ‘Adam’. A far better way to make your approach is through a mutual acquaintance.
When you see the girl of your dreams, look to see who she is with. It may be that you know someone at the table, and if so strike up a conversation with them first, working on achieving an introduction. Don’t worry if the mutual friend is simply a ‘friend of a friend’, or someone you’ve only briefly met, you can still use them to get you an intro at the table. Recognise a credible introduction will certainly achieve a lot more than the best one-liner.
If the one liner is the biggest cause of a premature collapse in a relationship attempt, the second biggest is not knowing what to say next. Girls are looking for someone with some depth to them. You may be the most good-looking thing in the world but if all you provide on your date is something to look at, and little else in the way of conversation, you might as well have stayed at home watching TV. One of the key dating tips for guys is to have some things in mind to talk about and be ready to listen as well. You are not there to lecture but to share thoughts and ideas. Not forgetting you will want to get to know her too.
And if you strike out, acknowledge it cheerfully and move on. You do not need to burn bridges. Remember she just might be the one you need to provide the next introduction as you practice how to approach a girl.
Extract taken from full review and article at Double Your Dating Review
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